So there were lots more conversations via text and Facebook with D last night. He wrote that above all he did not want me to feel badly and then the flood gates of commuication were unleashed by him. He has been essentially homeless since the baby was born, couch surfing and his fiancee and their baby are presently living out of state with her family as a result. He has no credit and could not get an apartment, she has bad credit and could not get an apartment. They could not find someone to cosign.
I said that I work in housing and maybe I was butting in but that I would do everything I could to help them find housing. When I was lucky enough to become Rob's mom, my family grew by more than just Rob. He and K and many many more were now in my mind, family. So to please reach out (and I promised to not have it on facebook, which made him laugh) and i would do all I could. I do not want him to be homeless. He is a bright, kind and intelligent young man.
He said that he was grateful for any and all help and was in a very humbling place right now. He said he considers me family and has for a long time. Now to get to work on finding this young man a home.