We are back from our first camp out of the summer and it was so much fun! Hikes, theme parks, board games with friends. We could see stars and the milky way clearly at night and I slept soundly tucked into my sleeping bag in our tent.
This year we brought another girl with us as well. I don't really know her parents well; I have met them twice actually. But I know her through our camping friends and my kids knew her as well. She very much wanted to come on a camping vacation and her parents would not go. So her parents messaged me and wanted to know if I would take their daughter camping.
I was fine with it and she was very easy to bring. I actually felt bad because everything we did was so new and exciting to her. She is 16 and clearly hasn't had a lot of experiences offered her in life. So making pancakes on the griddle outdoors was amazing. Making "walking tacos" was thrilling. Going to Storyland had her over the moon taking pictures with characters. Hiking up some waterfalls? The absolute bomb.
I felt lucky to be able to offer those experiences to her. I guess I hadn't really realized that there are lots of kids who don't get exposures in life. My friends and i have camped together since 2012. Our kids have grown up together camping and enjoying all that such vacations offer. This young lady's mom doesn't like warm weather and doesn't like to go out of the house and leave her a/c Her dad thinks that kids don't need to go anywhere.
But they do. The world is large and wide and in order to learn how to navigate in it, they need to get out in it. They have to learn to make decisions (trying to decide what to order at a diner was torture for her) They have to learn to help (everyone helps police our site to keep it boring for bears as we camp in bear country) Everyone helps set up and everyone helps break camp but in between there is lots of fun.
I am also a pretty laid back camper in that I tend to go with the flow--weather often dictates what can happen. But kids choose a lot of the activities locations and experiences. It was super super fun. I can't wait for the next campout!
***Edited to note that I wrote this in July and forgot to post it!
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