At Amazing Jane's farewell party a couple weeks ago, I thought back on how long we had known each other. She came into our lives in 2010 when Fiona first was placed in the Great School in the Big City. At her retirement party it was revealed that she worked over 15 years at the Great School.
That is pretty amazing for most jobs nowadays, even more so for this type of job which has a high burn out rate. I can see the difference in the revolving staff at the group home where my daughter now lives. She has been there just over 2 years. I have dealt with untold staff, 4 directors, and 2 clinicians, It is sadly a not atypical situation for a field where people deal with a great deal of stress and are woefully underpaid. The result is that people like my daughter, who need consistancy and stability, are all too often in the midst of change.
That is happening right now. In fact, there is no house director at the moment and my contact is a gentleman who is a regional director and oversees a number of the group homes. This is far from ideal. I know they are in the process of hiring someone. Meanwhile, Fiona has yet to have her final wisdom tooth out. It is a bottom one and it is bothering her.
However she was extremely agitated the day of the appointment and refused to go. The next day she went to the appointment but the dentist told her if she wanted she could be knocked out for the procedure. She wanted that but the consents I had signed were not for that so she had to come home without the work done again. I am unclear as to why she was even asked this as my daughter is not legally competent to make these decisions.
I was sent the scans last night. I am calling the drs office today to clarify. I am worried about the anesthesia as the dentist we saw initially said she could not have this due to her airway being very small. He said that she would be difficult to intubate should there be a medical crisis. Secondly the consent is for both the upper and lower tooth. Fiona only wants the bottom tooth out and this is all it was supposed to be. The upper has not moved and is not causing discomfort. I worry that she will be in too much pain if both come out on the same side. She had bad experiences with the previous two extractions and the worst one was the upper. Her roots effected her sinuses. She is in allergy season at the moment. I don't want to borrow more discomfort and emotional disregulation here!