Another fun and busy weekend at our house! Friday night the littles spent play time with our former neighbor. Their "KLB Club" was together once more and they had a blast. Lissa spent the night. KC is still fearful of sleeping away from home, so I just said that he was still getting over his cold. But at least he had a big chunk of time with his buds and that was a good thing.
The next morning after KC and I did our usual errands, we picked up Lissa from the sleepover. She had a Girl Scout trip Saturday afternoon so we dropped her off at that. While she was gone, KC and I made fondant creations to decorate Rob's family birthday cake. We made a big fry pan, a couple of plates, a hamburger with buns and cheese, and eggs. Oh and some cooking utensils. Painted them with food coloring and froze them. It was super hot here Saturday and I had visions of squishy fondant puddles instead of our little art project! That night after I got everyone to bed I finally made the cake.
Sunday morning was church and when we got home, my wife made her delicious frosting and I frosted the cake and put the "bacon and eggs" on the plate and some "eggs" to cook in the fry pan and set up the faux burger plate. If I do say so, it looked amazing. Rob had to work till 3. It was pouring so I picked him up and when we got home we had his party.
Lissa's contribution was helping me find decorations and helping to put them up in the dining room. Rob had said he did not want a theme this year so we went with birthday banners and all manner of glitzy stuff. She had a blast doing it and felt super important to be in charge of the decorating.
The party was filled with laughter and silliness. It was especially poingnent as we know that next year he is turning 21. I am really sure that party will be with friends and coworkers and that family will have a smaller role in the day. But I hope that he will know that we are always here. We are the safe place to launch from, the familiar place to return to when life is crazy, the place where you can puzzle out the next step. And where you will always get a hug.