Thursday, October 18, 2012
KC's First mom search
I heard back from the agency that did our homestudy really quickly. They said given all the information that I had gathered on KC's first mom, that they felt it was okay to use internet search engines and look for her. I hope to do this next week. I planned to do it this week but I need to use my work computer as mine here at home is so slow and arthritic. I have not even had a lunch
hour minute this week as things have been so crazy. If I find Y, and I deeply hope that I do, I can go back to our home study agency for asisstance in the first contact. I think I would want to do it that way as I don't want to hurt her and I really trust the two ladies from our home studying agency. I know that they look out for first mothers as well as adoptive ones. (there is an unbloggable but deeply personal family reason that I know this). So I trust their sensitivitiy and I also think that should Y have questions and things to say it might be easier to say them first to a more neutral person.